Too shy for online dating

Hartman said that this is a choice she sees introverts make in their online dating profiles.“If you’re at home reading Tolkien, you’re not a fun person," Hartman said facetiously.

’ One plus side of internet dating is your friends needn’t get involved in your love life, because that’s a recipe for disaster. I’ve got the perfect guy for you — but he’s not quite ready yet.’ When I asked why not, she said: ‘Well, his wife’s not quite dead yet.’ Often, I’ve seen a guy’s photo and thought: ‘Wow! Some women I know go on these sites for the same reason men do, but that’s not my style. Most of the men I’ve met have dressed smartly — that’s probably an age thing.So if someone gives you a tiny bit of attention, it doesn’t matter what age you are, you still get that ‘high’ we all remember from our younger days. ’ I was shocked when he got really abusive and nasty. His last text said: ‘You’re more stupid than I thought you were.’ And he was right.I made a very stupid mistake when I first started internet dating. It was a really stupid thing to do, so now I’m much more careful.So try it out, you maybe be surprised with who you meet.People typically perceive introversion as simple shyness.