Before you take it personally, take a breath and think things through. At the end of the day, you have to decide for yourself what you want, and why you want it. When waiting for a man to call you if he said he would, if he usually does, or if you think it’s common courtesy, always remember that the world will not end. If he isn’t calling you, or you feel uncomfortable calling him, then reevaluate the relationship. If it doesn’t feel good then lose the guy before you lose your positive attitude. Once, I dated a guy who would text me, or call me every day. I wasn’t freaked initially, but I noticed there was something essentially missing in my day. While we hadn’t been dating very long, just one day without contact I began to be alarmed. The next day came and went without a text and again I reached out to him. It was true ghosting because back then social media didn’t allow me to keep tabs on him. The fear you get when a guy you like isn’t reaching out to you. He pulled the classic fade out and it was a miserable experience.If a man isn’t calling, or texting you, don’t give him the satisfaction of seeing you squirm. You don’t need his call or text as a sign that he likes you. You want a man who is willing to invest in you the way that you are investing in him. Are you frustrated because you like him so much, and you can’t wait to hear from him? Maybe he is calling and texting but not at the speed or frequency that you would prefer.If the man you’re dating, or really into, doesn’t call when you expect him to then don’t feel obligated to answer when he does call. Or are you frustrated because you like him so much and he’s making you feel worthless? Then maybe you need to accept you’re being needy or impatient.
"It shows him that you're worth the wait and effort.This simple answer cuts deep, but has a great deal of validity. Get her free book 7 Dire Dating Mistakes that Keep You Single.While you and your date may have a great time, it doesn't mean the same thing to him as it does to you.2. While he certainly enjoys your company, he's more relaxed about seeing you.3. If you’re anxious about not hearing from the guy that you like, this is what you need to know when waiting for him to contact you. So if you’ve just met someone, take good inventory of your emotions.Have you ever heard of a thing called ‘the three day rule? If you meet a guy observing this rule, don’t freak. Ask yourself why you’re so invested, in a stranger? If you’ve been dating a guy for awhile, and he doesn’t call or text when he says he will don’t freak out.